Mediation & Counseling Consultants Inc

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Claimed  •  Legal & Financial , Arbitration & Mediation
863-207-4402
20 Third Street, Southwest Suite 205 Winter Haven, FL 33880

About Mediation & Counseling Consultants Inc

DIVORCE MEDIATION: Florida Supreme Court Certified Circuit Civil, Family, and Dependency Mediator: All issues resolved: Distribution of Assets and Debts, Alimony, Child Support, Modifications, Parenting Plans, Paternity, Separation.

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  • Mon Mon 8:05 am - 5:00 pm
  • Tue Tue 8:05 am - 5:00 pm
  • Wed Wed 8:05 am - 5:00 pm
  • Thu Thu 8:05 am - 5:00 pm
  • Fri Fri 8:05 am - 5:00 pm
  • Sat Sat Closed
  • Sun Sun Closed

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FAMILY CENTERED DIVORCE

FOR MORE INFORMATION ON DIVORCE MEDIATION - YOUR ATTORNEY ALTERNATIVE
VISIT:
  www.MediationAndCounselingConsultants.com


Family-centered divorce


Divorce is never easy on a family, but the use of divorce mediation, rather than the adversarial
process, can enable divorcing couples to approach the divorce from a family-centered
perspective, making constructive plans for parenting after divorce.


Through mediation, couples can learn to separate "spousal" issues from "parenting" issues, and
work together as parents even though the marriage is ending. The process of working together
helps parents to move beyond the vilification of one another – to become partners, rather than
adversaries, in the continued parenting of their children. In divorce or post-divorce mediation,
couples work toward a parenting plan that focuses mainly on the best interests of their children,
rather than on their own wants and needs. Such a plan takes children's developmental needs into
account and contains mechanisms for making adjustments over time.

In my mediation with couples, I often help them build a lot of "conflict prevention" models into their
agreements. Since change is a given – kids grow, incomes change, parents move – we try to set
up mechanisms for information-sharing and for making changes and adjustments over time.
Couples often choose to establish regular times to meet together as parents for discussion of
parenting issues and/or for renegotiating support issues as time, circumstances and the children's
needs develop. This enables them to work together in making child-centered decisions that seem
called for. It is a constructive alternative to an adversarial return to court each time an adjustment
is needed. Through mediation, couples can approach the divorce process in a way that is family supportive.

The process seeks to help couples to develop a divorce agreement that is fair and
acceptable to each and, most importantly, in the best interests of their children. This allows for all
family members to move into the next phase of their lives in the best possible shape, beyond
anger and hurt, and to leave the marriage "whole" to the greatest extent possible – emotionally
and financially. In the process, where children are involved, they lay a strong foundation for
working together post-divorce as parents (and, eventually, even grandparents!).

Through mediation, couples can address all issues relevant to the divorce: division of assets and
debts, support issues and parenting. In working toward a mutually acceptable resolution of each
issue, each person feels their needs and concerns addressed and feels supported by the
process. As parents make post-divorce parenting arrangements, they are encouraged to place
the child's needs foremost: to ensure that children have permission to love – and be loved – by
both parents; to strive never to speak ill of one another in the presence of their children; and to
refrain from engaging in conflict in the children's presence or from involving the children in their
adult con-flits. Divorce is never easy on a family, but mediation enables couples to take the high
road.

Pamela Britton White has been practicing divorce and family mediation full-time in the Pasadena
area since 1986.

FOR MORE INFORMATION ON DIVORCE MEDIATION - YOUR ATTORNEY ALTERNATIVE VISIT:  www.MediationAndCounselingConsultants.com Family-centered divorce Divorce is never easy on a family, but the use of divorce mediation, rather than the adversarial process, can enable d... Read More

Aug 31, 2010

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